{"id":4668,"date":"2025-12-18T02:36:43","date_gmt":"2025-12-18T02:36:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/microvibenews.com\/?p=4668"},"modified":"2025-12-18T02:36:43","modified_gmt":"2025-12-18T02:36:43","slug":"parents-told-to-lead-by-example-and-turn-off-phones-this-christmas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/microvibenews.com\/?p=4668","title":{"rendered":"Parents told to lead by example and turn off phones this Christmas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\">\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Parents should lead by example this Christmas and turn their phones off during family time, the children&#8217;s commissioner for England has said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Dame Rachel de Souza told the Press Association children were &#8220;crying  out&#8221; for engagement with their relatives over the festive break, and urged them to have &#8220;phone-free time&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Nearly half of parents with children aged 18 or younger plan to allow phones at the Christmas dinner table this year, according to a recent survey.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I can&#8217;t tell you how many children tell me about sitting at dinner and the parents are on the phone,&#8221; Dame Rachel said. &#8220;So this Christmas, let&#8217;s turn them off.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\">\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Research by More in Common for Yondr found nearly four in 10 adults say smartphones have disrupted their Christmas in some way.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">The children&#8217;s commissioner said while she had been guilty of using her phone at meal times in the past, setting clear guidelines for everyone, not just children, was key.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;We have to lead as adults,&#8221; Dame Rachel said. &#8220;We can&#8217;t talk about banning for the kids if we&#8217;re not doing it ourselves.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Her comments came as she launched a new guide offering tips for children&#8217;s safety online and how to set boundaries for screen time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Pete Etchells, psychology professor at Bath Spa University, told BBC News Christmas is a good time to lean into conversations with children about developing healthy relationships with tech.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;It&#8217;s not about feeling guilty or ashamed of our tech use, but noticing it more,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;And striking up conversations about what we&#8217;re happy with, and what we would like to be doing differently.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\">\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">The new guide by the commissioner, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"noopener\">available online<\/a>, has been released to support parents who &#8220;may feel overwhelmed&#8221; by &#8220;mixed messages&#8221; around online safety, and is informed by child focus groups.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">In it, parents can find &#8220;practical tips&#8221; and &#8220;conversation starters&#8221; on how to talk around topics such as managing screen time, dealing with negative online experiences, and the use of artificial intelligence (AI). <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Teenagers aged 13 to 18 told Dame Rachel they accepted bad things can happen online, feeling it was an inevitable part of the online world. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">They also shared how they had been contacted by strangers, seen pornography, and were aware of intimate images of their peers being shared. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Dame Rachel said it was essential for parents to &#8220;talk early and talk often&#8221; with their children about their presence online.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Arabella Skinner from Health Professionals for Safer Screens told BBC News simple rules can make a difference.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">She suggested creating a family plan around device use, or designing a box to store mobiles during meals.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Children feel most secure and content when they have our full attention, eye contact, and presence,&#8221; she said. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;It is so important that we, as adults, spend time with our children and not always looking at screens.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">A report <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/c39prelx2mxo\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"noopener\">published by the regulator Ofcom earlier this month<\/a> highlighted concerns children had over the negative impacts of endless screentime and &#8220;brain rot&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">It found that children aged between eight and 14 are spending an average of nearly three hours online each day, and that up to a quarter of that time was between 2100 and 0500.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>#Parents #told #lead #turn #phones #Christmas<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parents should lead by example&hellip; 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